Update: 11/26/06
Hi Friends and Family:
We have had a very restful and quiet Thanksgiving weekend. We have been enjoying having fires in the fireplace, visiting with Phil’s daughters and a friend who stopped by, talking and relaxing. Phil has recovered from the spinal tap that he had last week. He had the usual spinal tap headache unless he stayed flat in bed. This lasted for a week, and the last two days he has been up and around without a headache. So that has been a relief. He tires easily, and the medications have some side effects, but he is adjusting to them. After a week in bed, he thought a little fresh air might be good, so yesterday we went for a walk through the neighborhood. And today, we went out on an errand together. (He is not cleared to drive, but he is cleared to make suggestions from the passenger seat about my driving. ;-) And he did that very well.) It is strange how exhausting a short trip to the store can be. But it felt good to get out anyway.
The results of the spinal tap showed no sign of infection, and this moves us in the direction of the tumor diagnosis. We expect to hear from Dr. Kokkino sometime later this week.
This experience has been unlike any either of us has been through. We are learning how people go through something like this. We have always talked with each other easily, and trusted each other. And those things have been so useful to us in this. We find that we spend a little time talking and planning for things and then we need to get off the subject and just watch Battlestar Gallactica DVDs, or something.
Thanks to our departments at work, we have had time together to really talk about a lot of things and to adjust to this new information. We have also been well fed, as the UO Counseling and Testing Center staff has been providing dinner for us each day. Neighbors have raked our leaves and been very helpful in other ways as well. We are very grateful for this support.
We plan to send out weekly updates for the time being. No news is good news, in this case, so not to worry. J
We hope that all of you had a peaceful Thanksgiving, and we give thanks for each of you.
Love,
Phil and Elizabeth.
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